Thursday, September 16, 2010

Prince Charming/ Ideal Vs Reality Boyfriend


Have you ever thought about your Prince Charming/Ideal boyfriend? Well, I am not talking about Mr. Right.. I'm talking about one of your boyfriends. A lot of people would like their boyfriends to be a) real charming b) rich c) cute d) hot or e) eight-pack ... Well apart from the above things, I find one thing that REALLY matters to me.

MANNERS.

9 out of 10 girls like guy with manners. Even if the guy isn't attract (Not your ideal one), manners will make them look beautiful and somehow you will find yourself falling for him with no reason. Girls always choose guys with good manners over guys without good manners. This is just the way it is. Good manners guys get everything.

"I definitely find it attractive if a boy displays good manners both in small things, like opening the door for me, and larger things, like being kind and considerate not only to me but also to my family.”—Tina, 20.

I found this above lines on a website and I TOTALLY AGREE with it. And this is exactly what I am thinking. If my boyfriend doesn't have good manners, like...opening the door for me, start eating after my food has arrived as well, always on time when going on a date, care about every little things about me, know exactly what I want/don't...... if he fails to do the above things, the first time I may try to forget and forgive but if he keeps making the same mistakes over and over, I really can't guarantee I won't fall out of love because I really like GOOD MANNERS guy. I will try my best to let the guy knows about that but still it depends on the guy. He just has to know what he needs to change and most importantly he HAS to change after knowing it. No one is perfect but at least after knowing the mistakes the next step is to CHANGE. Communication is essential in a relationship. No one can read minds, sometimes you just have to say it out loud to let your honey/sweetie know.

So yeah, try to think about what kind of guy you like and choose wisely. Don't regret!



2 comments:

  1. "He just has to know what he needs to change and most importantly he HAS to change after knowing it." - what a demanding girlfriend HAHA

    good post :)

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  2. really so demanding? haha
    anyway what is the point of knowing it but not doing anything about it?

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