Promise

Have you ever made a promise? Have you ever broken your promises to people? Somehow it is just so easy to make a promise but keeping it is totally a different story. You can say 'I promise.' or "You have my word." all the time, but do you really mean it when you said that? Keeping a promise costs a lot. But no matter what, breaking a promise is a big sin because the moment you break it, you are hurting innocent people.

It's always easier said than done. People always like to make promises but they don't really take it seriously. They break their words over and over as if it never mattered. Maybe some people think that it matters, so they will start making a bunch of excuses, trying to make it look good. But what is the difference? Either way you are breaking your promise. Think a second before you make a promise, think twice whether you will be able to keep it. It is because the person you make promises to take it seriously, and once you break it, it hurts. You can say they are childish or naive to take in every single word you said, but a promise is a promise. Promise is something you are bounded to keep, not breaking it.

My friend once broke her promise to me and I felt so hurt. I accused her of breaking her word until now. I once made a promise to someone important. But a month ago I broke this promise. All this time I felt really guilty, I felt like I had hurt him so bad even though he hadn't found out that I'd had my promise broken. I honestly couldn't imagine what would happen if he found out. I knew I should never break this promise but still I did. I felt like I was tasting the forbidden apple. The guilt seemed to have been eating me inside and out. I couldn't stand it anymore so I stopped doing whatever I was doing and continued to keep the promise that I've made. I just didn't want to break it anymore.

I am not sure about the others but to me breaking my promises is a big deal. Or someone breaking his/her promises that he/she made to me is certainly a huge deal to me. I really hate people breaking their promises. Once you said, "I PROMISE." I believe you will be able to keep it and I will take it really seriously. That is why here I am, making a promise to you guys, "I promise I will never break any of my promises." and sorry if I ever did.

It feels like being cheated when someone break his/her promise on you. It feels like that person doesn't care about you anymore, or maybe he has never really care about you at the first place. It hurts so bad. I know this feeling so I don't want to see people around me getting hurt.

Somehow, it is better off not to take so seriously in people's word/ promise because once it is broken, you will be the only one who get hurt. On the other hand, don't make a promise to anyone if you aren't sure you can keep it/ work it out.

DO NOT RUSH INTO ANYTHING

Nothing is worse then rushing into a relationship and on the one-month anniversary you have the thought of breaking up with your boyfriend.

You maybe serious in the relationship at first but once when the feeling is gone, it’s just so hard to find it again. People say the more time you spend with the person, the more feelings you will have. However, why force yourself to be with someone who obviously isn’t your Mr. Right? When he is always out of your league? Why don’t we just let the feelings fade away and seek for the better?

Breaking up with your boyfriend one month after being together is hard. It seems like you are obviously toying with his feelings. This is so wrong. But somehow ending it as soon as possible is better for the both of you. Ending it after a really long time is bad because by then your boyfriend will love you more and more and it will be painful for him to break up with you.

Feelings can grow but they can go away too. This is so true. If you want to satisfy that person, you got to satisfy her hearts as well. When all this time he is not what you actually want but for some unknown reasons you just get into a relationship with him, soon you will start to wonder if it is a mistake and when you realize that it really is then all the feelings you once had for him will disappear at once. And then you will start to think about whether or not you should let go.

Keep holding onto the relationship you obviously don’t want to continue no matter what is actually a waste of time. You are taking away the chances for him to seek for the better; someone who will truly love him. And the decision of breaking up with him is actually a lesson for you.

DO NOT RUSH INTO ANYTHING.

Rushing into something is only setting you and your boyfriend up for trouble and misery. The decision of rushing into a relationship with him is the start of an ugly ending. This is reality, not a fairytale. Nothing good will come out of it because he can never satisfy you when he is always NOT the one you want. People win, and people lose. But in the end, everyone will have a chance to win and that is when you have a happy marriage.

Anywayz, what I want to say is think it over, think twice, think a million times before taking a step, before getting into a relationship or getting married. Because you don't want to break up with your boyfriends or your husbands over and over. Breaking up with boyfriends a million times is okay but getting divorces is definitely not a good thing.

So yeah, think before you leap.

I wrote a poem

Love me with all your heart

In a blink of an eye

We are by each other's side

In a few months time

Our relationship comes by

We knew before we met

Guess it is god’s will

That we are set

And our love will never be killed

I never thought we would have any connections

And there is no way we would ever click

I had my confusions

But you cleared it with a trick

A stranger you were once

Another gentle look you had my hands

You lit my life like a pretty dance

One more look you will have my yes

If I could have one wish

It would be hearing you saying I Love You

If I could have one more wish

It would be waking up seeing you

I wrote your name on the window

But it is easily erased

Under the sun, I saw your shadow

But it can so fade away

I craved your name in my heart

And forever it will stay

You bring a joy to my heart

And it feels like candies to me every day

You know you are in love

The moment you notice the paradise in my laugh

All I want is to be part of your heart

And for us being together and never be apart