DO NOT RUSH INTO ANYTHING

Nothing is worse then rushing into a relationship and on the one-month anniversary you have the thought of breaking up with your boyfriend.

You maybe serious in the relationship at first but once when the feeling is gone, it’s just so hard to find it again. People say the more time you spend with the person, the more feelings you will have. However, why force yourself to be with someone who obviously isn’t your Mr. Right? When he is always out of your league? Why don’t we just let the feelings fade away and seek for the better?

Breaking up with your boyfriend one month after being together is hard. It seems like you are obviously toying with his feelings. This is so wrong. But somehow ending it as soon as possible is better for the both of you. Ending it after a really long time is bad because by then your boyfriend will love you more and more and it will be painful for him to break up with you.

Feelings can grow but they can go away too. This is so true. If you want to satisfy that person, you got to satisfy her hearts as well. When all this time he is not what you actually want but for some unknown reasons you just get into a relationship with him, soon you will start to wonder if it is a mistake and when you realize that it really is then all the feelings you once had for him will disappear at once. And then you will start to think about whether or not you should let go.

Keep holding onto the relationship you obviously don’t want to continue no matter what is actually a waste of time. You are taking away the chances for him to seek for the better; someone who will truly love him. And the decision of breaking up with him is actually a lesson for you.

DO NOT RUSH INTO ANYTHING.

Rushing into something is only setting you and your boyfriend up for trouble and misery. The decision of rushing into a relationship with him is the start of an ugly ending. This is reality, not a fairytale. Nothing good will come out of it because he can never satisfy you when he is always NOT the one you want. People win, and people lose. But in the end, everyone will have a chance to win and that is when you have a happy marriage.

Anywayz, what I want to say is think it over, think twice, think a million times before taking a step, before getting into a relationship or getting married. Because you don't want to break up with your boyfriends or your husbands over and over. Breaking up with boyfriends a million times is okay but getting divorces is definitely not a good thing.

So yeah, think before you leap.