Sunday, March 13, 2011

First kiss, how was it?

Have you had your first kiss yet? Well, was it difficult or was it easy? Is your partner a good kisser? Or is he/she a so-so one, or even worse, a bad kisser? I'm sure if the person sucks at kissing for the very first time, he/ she is trying really hard to make it all better. First time, it's never gonna be easy. You should be glad if your girlfriend is not a good kisser (at least for the first time) that means you really got her FIRST kiss. Without experiences, how can she be a good kisser?

Honestly, should you speak while you are kissing? Well, I think we totally SHOULDN'T, because speaking while kissing is a mood killer. But.... if you girlfriend tries to speak, or speaks whiling kissing, either she is trying to get her mind off whatever she is doing because she is nervous, or she wants you to know how nice it is or she is really good at it.

How to kiss passionately? This is a very hard thing to do, I think. If you are making out, and you don't feel high, how can you kiss passionately? Practice makes perfect, right? Besides, it is good to make out/kiss. Why? Because kissing burns 6.5 calories per minutes. Isn't it a good way to keep fit? lol So yeah, kiss more.

Would it be easier to kiss while you are a bit tipsy? Well, I seriously think it will be! Pretties and pretty boy, why don't you go grab some alcohol and got yourself a little bit drunk.. just a little bit, okay? You don't wanna end up too drunk and do something you will regret. So yeah, it's time to go kiss your partner. I'm sure it will be a totally different story from just making out while your mind is way too clear. Wow, I can't wait to find out. (jk)

Where's the best place to have you first kiss stolen? (lol) On the bed? On the couch? In the middle of a crowded street? Or like in the movie in the arcades? I don't know about you, but I think either bed or couch is a good place. But, some people say that kissing on the roller coaster makes the kiss more exciting; love has its ups and downs and that makes kissing on the roller coaster exciting. Well, what about kissing upside down? It may be a bit awkward but it is absolutely wonderful. You really should try it.

First serious dating, first serious love, first serious kiss, how can anyone forget? <3

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Never try, never know

Not sure if you remember, but a while ago, I've written a post about Prince Charming/Ideal VS Reality boyfriend. I remember I met a guy last year, and he is definitely not suitable for me. No offense, but he truly isn't. Anywayz, today, I am not going to talk about him but another person. I'm going to talk about how a guy loves a girl in a way that she can feel really safe and relax and happy.

Dating a guy should be happy. If the guy cannot make the girl feel happy, what is the point of being together to physically and mentally torture one another? Not sure whether every girl is like that but to me, I think when the guy cares every little thing about the girl, treat her like an adult and a baby whenever he should, always be there for her when she needs him the most, never let her get bored, always have fun with her and do whatever she wants with her. Having manners, being gentleman not just to the girlfriend but to other people as well. That is when he made it. That is when he touches the girl's heart. Girl's heart are crystal-made, they are fragile as hell. Even the most tough girl will get heartbroken. Never judge from the appearance of girls, they may look tough, never cry/always smile, but you never know that deep down inside, they are lonely as hell, and need caring way more than any other girl.

What about kissing? Have you ever thought about when you should kiss the guy? When you like him enough? Or LOVE him enough? Honestly, you can't possibly love a person within a short period of time right? The L word seems easy to say sometimes. We always say "oh I love u!" , "love you, seeya!" But when it comes to a guy and a girl, the L word is not that easy to say. Well even if you said it, but I'm sure you heart is telling you a different story. You say it because you really like the guy way more than just enough but the love feeling is not yet there. It needs time. But don't get me wrong, it doesn't mean you don't like him. You do, a lot.

Anywayz, should you kiss just by following your instinct? Well, I used to think that kissing is a really big deal. I once said, I would never kiss a guy that I am dating at least after a month or two. Well, guess you know what I am going to say... I don't agree to what I said before. I mean, what's the big deal? Kissing is not that big of a deal, it is a physical contact and I guess kissing the guy you like... you got absolutely nothing to lose, right? Kissing is not like sex. Right now, I seriously think that people should just do it when she think she likes the guy enough and when she is ready. If the guy really truly cares about you, he will never force you, he will always wait until you are ready and willing to.

I always that think Prince Charming and Reality boyfriend will be soooo different, but somehow, I think Prince Charming does exist. Have you found your Prince charming/reality honey?