Not sure if you remember, but a while ago, I've written a post about Prince Charming/Ideal VS Reality boyfriend. I remember I met a guy last year, and he is definitely not suitable for me. No offense, but he truly isn't. Anywayz, today, I am not going to talk about him but another person. I'm going to talk about how a guy loves a girl in a way that she can feel really safe and relax and happy.
Dating a guy should be happy. If the guy cannot make the girl feel happy, what is the point of being together to physically and mentally torture one another? Not sure whether every girl is like that but to me, I think when the guy cares every little thing about the girl, treat her like an adult and a baby whenever he should, always be there for her when she needs him the most, never let her get bored, always have fun with her and do whatever she wants with her. Having manners, being gentleman not just to the girlfriend but to other people as well. That is when he made it. That is when he touches the girl's heart. Girl's heart are crystal-made, they are fragile as hell. Even the most tough girl will get heartbroken. Never judge from the appearance of girls, they may look tough, never cry/always smile, but you never know that deep down inside, they are lonely as hell, and need caring way more than any other girl.
What about kissing? Have you ever thought about when you should kiss the guy? When you like him enough? Or LOVE him enough? Honestly, you can't possibly love a person within a short period of time right? The L word seems easy to say sometimes. We always say "oh I love u!" , "love you, seeya!" But when it comes to a guy and a girl, the L word is not that easy to say. Well even if you said it, but I'm sure you heart is telling you a different story. You say it because you really like the guy way more than just enough but the love feeling is not yet there. It needs time. But don't get me wrong, it doesn't mean you don't like him. You do, a lot.
Anywayz, should you kiss just by following your instinct? Well, I used to think that kissing is a really big deal. I once said, I would never kiss a guy that I am dating at least after a month or two. Well, guess you know what I am going to say... I don't agree to what I said before. I mean, what's the big deal? Kissing is not that big of a deal, it is a physical contact and I guess kissing the guy you like... you got absolutely nothing to lose, right? Kissing is not like sex. Right now, I seriously think that people should just do it when she think she likes the guy enough and when she is ready. If the guy really truly cares about you, he will never force you, he will always wait until you are ready and willing to.
I always that think Prince Charming and Reality boyfriend will be soooo different, but somehow, I think Prince Charming does exist. Have you found your Prince charming/reality honey?
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